i love my boyfriend and get excited to talk to him every day but when i actually start talking to him i quickly become tired and even sad even though he didnt say anything negative ?? it makes no sense, something is off with the energies here
@dymphna Thats a curious thought. If i recall right, your parent model of a partnership is really turbulent and unbalanced. Could that possibly be a part of it?
Did he say anything particularly positive? Do you find you have fun , find n ew ideas, new approaches to old things? I was in a really stagnant relationship for six years. It did have its abusive bits but was otherwise meh/neutral.
Now thet I'm in a very positive partnership i can totes see the difference.
@Elluenda i think it was my depression and anxiety acting up, i felt happy talking to him today... it is a mystery